https://onwar.se/ 2026-09-18T05:55:37+00:00 https://onwar.se/ https://onwar.se/lib/exe/fetch.php?media=wiki:dokuwiki.svg text/html 2026-09-17T21:49:25+00:00 Anonymous (anonymous@undisclosed.example.com) https://onwar.se/doku.php?id=bachelor_and_bachelorette_parties:a_planner_s_reality_check&rev=1789681765&do=diff Somebody gets engaged and somebody else, usually the closest friend, inherits the job of organising the send off. It arrives without instructions and with a surprising amount of pressure attached. Here is what actually matters, in order. The person it is for. This should be obvious and it is routinely forgotten. The organiser plans the evening they would enjoy, or the evening they think the group expects, rather than the one the person being celebrated would choose. If the groom hates being th…